I want you to have an opportunity to see a sample of what you will be getting so I am posting the preface of my e book.  It will give you an overview of what will be discussed.

Masturbation, the topic that has spurned many different emotions. From laughter and embarrassment to ridicule and prejudice. No other topic has been so talked about.

But yet it is so misunderstood. What effects does masturbation have on us humans. What harm is there in doing it? What good is there if any? Many of these questions will be answered in this book. That is our objective here. To give the reader precise reasons to decide if they truly want to stop or curb it. And if they do then how to go about achieving that. This book you hold your hands is what I believe is the key to unlocking your true potential. In the next chapters you will gain a whole new outlook on what masturbation is and what it isn't. What it means to you on a personal level. What it means on a historic, scientific and even a religious view on it.

This book is not religious dogma and I will try as best I can to develop a plan that is not only educational and informative but a good fun read that you can share with your friends. Then they can decide in turn whether it is something for them. That does not mean I will shy away from religious concepts where appropriate. The reader may skip over these sections if he or she so chooses. This book's primary focus will be on the scientific rationale behind masturbation and proven tips and techniques to stop.

I also believe in the philosophy of “not taking yourself too damn seriously.” Nothing is worse than some sermoner preaching from a pulpit banging his fist and being all anal about a topic. I believe in the value of “info-tainment” so I'm writing this book in a style that will not only be educational but entraining as well. Not some dried up list of tips and tricks. Not some sermon of me talking down to you. Just an honest candid and entertaining monologue from someone who has experienced what you are currently going through. And has found a way out.

I have literally spent thousands of hours on this subject going over everything from religious manuscripts to scientific journals to going on line and asking for input from the real world. This is a no pulled punches book. I will often refer to slang and possibly even vulgar language to get my point across. I did this to give value in the world where I believe value is lacking. The pornographic industry is making billions off guys and girls just like you. They want to keep you right in front of your computer looking at porn and jacking off. I don't know about you but I can think of a lot better things to do with my time. Be glad that you paid the small price to get this book in your hands. This is an investment in your future that you were giving away to the porn industry.

Those of the more religious type I ask you to just keep an open mind, because I have been where you are. I am a Christian but I am also a sinner. I know the pain and guilt you feel. But just let me start by saying that YOU ARE NOT YOUR SINS. I will go into elaborate detail about this in a chapter especially dedicated to religious readers. But I suggest you read the whole book to get a better perspective on the subject.

At first I was just going to write a “25 tips to stop masturbating” Pamphlet. Everyone wants that magic bullet that is going to help them stop once and for all. but I realized that without a solid understanding of the subject “at hand” (pardon the pun) The techniques would not work. I know this from personal experience. I know the frustration. Most of the real world information I got was a conglomerated mass of tips and tricks that you may have heard before. But why didn't they work for you? The beginning of this book will cover that. It's about a thorough understanding of what is happening in your mind and body. It also demystifys the myths and misinformation out there that you may have blocking your way. I went through the process myself so I know that it works.

So what may seem irrelevant is actually the foundation that our tips and techniques structure will be built. An old Chinese proverb states, “without a proper beginning there can be no hope for a right ending” Another way of looking at this is if you are shooting arrows at a target if you are off by one half inch in your aim you can completely miss your target. I will refer to this “ get ready, aim , fire” strategy often.

The strategies section is the “Aim Section.” This where the meat (oh no not again) of the solution is. It may be tempting to skip over this first part of this but you will be short changing yourself . There will be exercises for you to do in the preceding chapters that I strongly suggest you do before getting here. If you want the full value of this book then take advantage of it.

And finally there is the problem of what to do with all that free time after you have accomplished the seemingly impossible. That my friend is where my newsletter “Get ready, Aim, Fire” will come in handy. By subscribing to my newsletter I will be discussing valuable information about the five areas of people's lives that they would like to master. These areas are: Physical, Mental, Emotional, Financial, and Spiritual. I will be speaking with some of the top leaders in one of the five respective fields. I will welcome any suggestions for topics on an ongoing basis. What this newsletter will not be be is a bunch more crap on whacking off. That's all covered here. Once you will realize that out of site out of mind is a good policy when it comes to this we will fill that void you created with life changing strategies to help you become successful in all five areas of your life. Give a man a fish and he eats for a day. Teach a man to fish and he eats for life. I have come to be a fisher of men. Hence all my websites will end with “.net” instead of “.com”

Now lets get down to business.....

Jack Bates